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Feeling like a frazzled, coffee-reheating, “I’ve got this” mom who’s actually barely holding it together? You’re not alone. Welcome to Unlikely Housewives — the Christian mom podcast where two real women (and moms) trade people-pleasing for freedom, self-care for soul-care, and “the hustle” for a life of purpose.
Tracy and Tori are Christian moms who met after moving their families across the country and realized they were both faking it, lonely, and tired of comparison. We’re recovering people-pleasers and straight shooters who believe God calls the unlikely — and that you were made for more than just surviving motherhood, marriage, and the daily grind.
On this show, we talk real about:
- Christian parenting with purpose (and the mess that comes with it)
- Marriage, faith, and the hard conversations no one wants to have
- Women’s health, emotional baggage, and ditching cultural lies
- How to stop pretending and start living with hope as a Christian mom
If you’re a busy, isolated Christian mom looking for encouragement, laughter, and a reminder that you’re not alone — this is your tribe. Pull up those high-waisted yoga pants, tighten your top knot, reheat your coffee (again), and let’s rise together in faith, motherhood, and marriage.
Want to be a guest on Unlikely Housewives? Send Tori Shirah a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/unlikelyhousewives
Episodes
Tuesday Oct 21, 2025
Tuesday Oct 21, 2025
Chapters
(01:33) - Inspirational Perspective on Marriage
(04:10) - The Resilient Journey of Stephanie Jordan
(09:18) - The Power of Marriage Restoration
(26:16) - Protecting Your Marriage Through Challenges
(42:16) Defining Domestic Abuse and Marriage
(55:01) - Heeding God's Voice in Marriage
(56:47) Divine Guidance in Relationship Choices
Podcast Summary
Resilient women are inspiring; that includes Stephanie Jordan who shares her journey through faith, marriage, and life's unexpected challenges! Stephanie opens up her heart and life to explore the trials and triumphs she has faced. From domestic abuse and widowhood to the vibrant spirit of a punk rocker single mom, this conversation shines a light on the power of faith and humor in overcoming hardships.
Step into the world of marriage restoration and divine intervention as we examine relationships tested by addiction, severe health issues, and unexpected pregnancies. Learn how spiritual guidance can transform a relationship on the brink of collapse into one of renewed strength and connection. We also address the realities of marital challenges, emphasizing that love requires effort and spirituality can be a vital support. Together, we uncover the importance of respecting each other as partners, acknowledging that marriages with children add unique layers of complexity and shared responsibility.
Recognizing the fine line between healthy marriages and abusive relationships is crucial. This episode challenges cultural definitions and encourages a deeper understanding. We explore how discerning God’s voice can offer clarity and perspective, helping couples navigate minor grievances and embrace the bigger picture.
You can connect with Stephanie at https://www.thestephaniejordan.com/
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Tuesday Oct 14, 2025
Tuesday Oct 14, 2025
Chapters
(00:00) - Unlikely Housewives Discuss Faith and Culture
(03:29) - Navigating Faith, Love, and Authenticity
(17:33) - Godly Leaders and Their Imperfections
(22:57) - Parenting Through the Culture War
(30:50) - Navigating Cultural Shifts in Faith
(43:09) - Parenting Challenges in Modern Culture
(51:50) - Love, Accountability, and Faith
Podcast Summary
Can cultural differences coexist harmoniously with faith? Join us as we uncover surprising journeys of atheists who embraced Christ by aligning with church's worldview on contentious issues like the trans movement and socialism. With Pastor Zach Terry bringing his no-nonsense approach to faith and community, we promise you'll gain insights into navigating challenging conversations with love and authenticity. This episode isn't just about belief—it's about the courage to build bridges beyond disagreement and discovering how community thrives even in diversity.
Podcasting is more than a medium; it's a movement reshaping spiritual discourse, and we're eager to explore its transformative power with you. We discuss how sermons are evolving into motivational messages, influenced by public figures like Russell Brand and Jordan Peterson, who are on their own spiritual journeys. Through candid conversations, we consider the authenticity of these transformations and the role of sincerity in faith. As we navigate these cultural shifts, we reflect on how podcasts can spread the gospel with boldness and truth, creating a ripple effect in today's digital age.
Parenting in modern culture isn't for the faint-hearted, especially when navigating complex issues of gender identity and sexual orientation. Our episode offers a guiding hand, sharing personal stories and lessons learned in support of families facing these challenges. From tackling unexpected topics like exposure to unconventional subcultures to the importance of mercy and acceptance in faith, our conversation reaffirms the strength found in community.
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Tuesday Oct 07, 2025
Tuesday Oct 07, 2025
Chapters
(00:00) - Magnetic Marriages
(06:29) - Transforming Marriage Through Personal Growth
(15:42) - Love Language Dynamics and Miscommunications
(24:13) - Rebuilding Fun and Foundation in Marriage
(30:16) - Prioritizing Self-Care and Active Listening
(43:36) - Reviving and Nurturing Marital Relationships
(54:11) - Empowering Housewives for Self-Improvement
Podcast Summary
Unlock the secrets to building and sustaining magnetic marriages with insights from our special guest, certified relationship coach Cristie Cerniglia. Learn how husbands often gauge their success through their wives' happiness and discover the transformative power of personal growth in revitalizing long-term relationships. Cristie shares her journey of reigniting intimacy in her 30-year marriage using Laura Doyle's strategies, offering valuable lessons that extend beyond marriage to all types of relationships. Prepare to become the "magnet" in your connections, ensuring they thrive long after the children have flown the nest.
Discover how the right resources, such as Laura Doyle's "The Empowered Wife," can turn rocky marital paths into smooth journeys. We highlight the importance of self-investment, the pitfalls of a "holier-than-thou" mindset, and explore how gratitude and active listening can enhance marital satisfaction. Whether it's meeting the challenges of different life seasons or maintaining a strong foundation, this episode provides practical tools for adding fun and friendship back into the fabric of marriage.
Celebrate personal empowerment as key components in sustaining harmonious relationships. Find joy in small daily activities, respect your partner's autonomy, and avoid the trap of micromanagement. We also tackle the misconception that staying together for the kids simplifies future decisions, highlighting the need for proactive renewal in marriages.
Go to Cristie’s website below to sign up for her newsletter and she’ll send you a free resource, “Five Mistakes Women Make Getting Their Man’s Attention”.
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Tuesday Sep 30, 2025
Tuesday Sep 30, 2025
Chapters
(00:04) - Discussing Divorce and Infidelity
(08:48) - Creative PR Strategy Involving Celebrities
(15:30) - Taboo Topics of Infidelity and Divorce
(27:24) - Recognizing Signs of Marital Infidelity
(34:47) - Grateful for Friend's Support and Faith
Podcast Summary
We take a trip back to our early podcasting days, where we were huddled in a makeshift studio, with the incredible Stephanie Dulin, our very first guest as we discussed the complex issues of foster care and adoption. Fast forward to now, and we're diving headfirst into a heartfelt discussion and the isolating experience of divorce within the Christian community. Stephanie shares how a seemingly unrelated event, like a Coldplay concert incident, can mirror personal trials, offering unexpected lessons and insights. Through laughter and candid conversation, we remind each other—and our listeners—that no one is truly alone in their journey.
This episode tackles the tough conversations many shy away from—infidelity and divorce—and the societal judgments that often accompany these topics. Stephanie bravely recounts her experience of addressing these issues at a church event, highlighting the delicate balance of vulnerability and strength needed to break the silence. Together, we explore the signs of marital infidelity and the emotional turmoil that comes with being dismissed. Trusting one's instincts, leaning on community support, and seeking guidance from scripture emerge as key themes in navigating these rocky paths. We also touch on the invaluable role of empathy and accountability in personal relationships, hoping to empower others to share their stories for personal healing and communal support.
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Tuesday Sep 23, 2025
Tuesday Sep 23, 2025
Chapters
(00:00) - Warrior Moms in Faith and Healing
(05:33) - Family Struggles With Anxiety and Depression
(14:17) - Desperate Struggles of Motherhood
(23:11) - Recovery Journey From Trauma and Suicide
(26:59) - Navigating Therapy and Counseling With Children
(41:36) - Empowering Communication With Teenagers
Podcast Summary
Jenn Robb, a warrior mom and nurse practitioner, shares her emotionally charged journey in navigating her daughter's mental health struggles, including anxiety, depression, and self-harm, that disrupted their seemingly perfect family life. As someone who understands the pressure of maintaining appearances in Christian communities, Jenn speaks candidly about the stigma and isolation that comes with these challenges, particularly when sensitive topics like sexual assault are involved. Through her story, Jenn reveals how faith, prayer, and persistence became her guiding lights, and how she found healing and purpose amidst personal battles.
Together, we explore the painful yet hopeful aspects of motherhood, from the emotional burdens of discovering self-harm to the desperate measures taken after her daughter Chloe's unresponsive night due to alcohol consumption. Jenn brings to light the critical nature of addressing root causes rather than just symptoms, emphasizing cognitive behavior therapies like EMDR that played a significant role in Chloe's recovery. She also reflects on her own healing journey, finding peace in the belief that trials can be transformative, presenting opportunities for growth and deeper understanding.
Jenn's commitment to fostering open communication within her family stands out as a powerful testament to the importance of emotional safety and trust. By sharing techniques such as using code words and encouraging free expression of feelings, Jenn has cultivated a supportive environment for her children. Her insights are further expanded in her book "Warrior Mom Rising," a vital resource for mothers facing similar struggles. Through this episode, we find encouragement and reassurance that God's timing, though sometimes delayed, is never absent.
Connect with Jenn on Instagram warriormom_jennrobb
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Tuesday Sep 16, 2025
Tuesday Sep 16, 2025
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Chapters
(00:00) - Calm Mom Amino Acid Therapy
(04:54) - Finding Healing Through Amino Acid Therapy
(24:20) - Overcoming Challenges Through Faith and Healing
(30:34) - Brain-Centered Mom Therapy Program
(34:21) - Empowering Wellness Choices for Families
Podcast Summary
After facing years of struggle with anxiety, depression, and an eating disorder, Laurie Hammer discovered the profound impact of amino acid therapy on her mental health and energy levels. In our conversation, Laurie shares her personal journey and introduces the innovative Calm Mom Method, designed to help moms manage anxiety and restore energy. With a strong foundation in psychology and nutritional therapy, Laurie reveals how balancing neurotransmitters can alleviate cravings and mental health challenges, offering a ray of hope for anyone on a mental wellness journey.
Our discussion doesn't shy away from the complexities of transitioning from traditional antidepressants to alternative therapies. We examine the historical context of SSRIs and the decline of natural remedies, advocating for the importance of medical guidance when making such significant changes. The broader implications of long-term medication use on identity and emotional development are addressed, alongside the promising potential of amino acid therapy across all ages. Laurie's story is one of faith and resilience, underscoring how holistic approaches can complement conventional treatments and empower individuals to reclaim their mental health.
Laurie also introduces the exciting offerings of the Calm Mom Academy, where brain-centered health strategies take center stage. Joined by insights from Chelsea Blackbird, we explore how starting with brain-first therapy can lead to better health outcomes. The structured 90-day program aims to calm the brain and ground individuals, preparing them to tackle more specific health concerns. Whether you're a practitioner seeking education and certification or someone struggling with anxiety, this episode offers a wealth of information and inspiration to make informed wellness choices for yourself and your family.
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Tuesday Sep 09, 2025
Tuesday Sep 09, 2025
Ever find yourself thinking, "Why should I bother anyone with my small problems when people are facing much bigger issues?" In our latest episode, we unpack this common mindset and the isolation it breeds. We stress that every challenge, no matter how small it may seem, deserves attention and support. Through candid conversations and personal anecdotes, we highlight the importance of community and the healing power of sharing our burdens. No prayer request is too small, and as friends, we're here to lift each other up, regardless of the weight of our struggles.
We also journey through life's challenging terrains, exploring how these experiences can be woven into a greater purpose. Whether you're grappling with health issues, a painful divorce, or personal battles, you don’t have to face it alone. We dive into the concept of spiritual warfare and the quest for meaning during tough times, enriched by redemption stories from our summer series. Embracing vulnerability and community, we reflect on how sharing our deepest struggles can break down walls of judgment and misunderstanding. Inspired by Jonathan Pokluda's "Your Story Has a Villain," we delve into the idea that while life’s path may be unclear, our stories are opportunities to help others and find strength in obedience and openness.
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Chapters
Unlikely Housewives (00:04)
Validating personal struggles, reaching out for support, and the importance of community in facing life's challenges.
Spiritual Warfare and Finding Purpose (12:21)
Navigating through life's challenges, the importance of vulnerability and community, and finding purpose in our struggles.
Tuesday Jul 29, 2025
Tuesday Jul 29, 2025
Chapters
(01:49) - Navigating Grief With Dr. Amanda McNeil
(11:57) - Navigating Feelings of Grief AND Hope
(20:12) Finding Balance in the Grieving Process
(26:33) - Supporting Friends in Grief and Avoidance
(34:24) Navigating Pain and Questioning God
(39:59) - Nurturing Faith and Healing After Loss
Podcast Summary
Grief can feel like an isolating journey, but what if it could also be a path to purpose and understanding? Join us for a conversation with Dr. Amanda McNeil, a grief counselor who turned personal tragedy into a mission to help others navigate their own loss. As we share personal reflections on teenage emotions and the universal experience of feeling alone in our pain, Dr. McNeil offers her unique insights into the diverse ways grief can manifest. Listen as we explore the importance of recognizing and validating these differences, and how Dr. Amanda's journey from loss to leadership coaching inspires hope amidst darkness.
Children often find it challenging to understand grief and loss, and our discussion reveals how movies and shows can mirror these intense emotions. We highlight the importance of meeting kids where they are emotionally, allowing them to express their feelings without rushing to soothe them with hope. By drawing from personal experiences, we highlight the balance between sadness and hope, underscoring empathy and emotional acknowledgment as key pathways to healing. The journey through grief is not just for children but for all of us, and we explore how these lessons can resonate with adults too.
Supporting friends in grief can be a delicate task, especially when they turn to avoidance. Our conversation offers strategies for providing loving support and encouraging professional help without overwhelming those in pain. Through humor and honesty, we consider the impact of our wishes on loved ones, fostering a perspective that honors both the joy of life and the complexities of loss. Whether you're processing your grief or supporting someone else, this episode is a reminder that healing is a journey we undertake together.
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Tuesday Jul 22, 2025
Tuesday Jul 22, 2025
Chapters
(05:28) Themes of Change and Authenticity
(13:28) Reconnecting With Daughter After Adoption
(18:42) Developing Relationship With Christ
(24:01) Teaching Unconditional Love to Children
(28:30) Parental Love vs. Acceptance
(36:14) Parents' Guidance and God's Redemption
Podcast Summary
When the phone rang that ordinary day, Dr. Zoe Shaw had no idea it would be her daughter, the one she gave up for adoption 18 years ago, reaching out through Facebook. This unexpected moment of reconnection was a profound healing experience that unraveled years of secret-keeping and shame. In our latest conversation, Dr. Zoe shares her remarkable story of redemption and the unexpected paths life can take. Her journey is a testament to how God can use even the most hidden parts of our lives for healing and transformation.
Join us as Dr. Zoe talks about her transition from a traditional psychotherapy practice to a dynamic blend of virtual therapy and coaching, focusing on empowering women to overcome shame and codependency. With a heartfelt approach that combines psychology, faith, and a sprinkle of feminism, Dr. Zoe is on a mission to guide women toward authentic relationships with themselves and others. Her insights promise to resonate with anyone who has ever felt alone or burdened by secrets. Don't miss this inspiring episode that encourages listeners to embrace their own paths to healing and wholeness.
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Tuesday Jul 15, 2025
Tuesday Jul 15, 2025
Chapters
(00:00) - Journey of Addiction Recovery and Healing
(04:11) - Parenting and Substance Use Awareness
(17:32) - Navigating Teenage Drug Use and Recovery
(28:36) - Grief, Recovery, and Family Healing
(39:12) - Embracing Healing Through Communication
(45:49) - Family Intervention Dynamics
Podcast Summary
Navigating the stormy seas of addiction and recovery can feel isolating, but you're not alone. Darryl Rogers, our courageous guest, shares the heartfelt journey of supporting his son, Chase, through the throes of substance use disorder. Their story, marked by familial love and unimaginable loss, illuminates the often-misunderstood landscape of addiction. As parents, we are reminded that understanding and communication are vital lifeboats in troubled waters, offering pathways to healing and hope for both individuals and their families.
Join us as we tackle the complex challenges of parenting amidst substance use awareness. With Darryl's insights, we uncover the subtle yet significant warning signs of drug use in teenagers and explore the pressures that may catalyze addiction, such as academic struggles and ADHD. Through his candid anecdotes and wisdom, Darryl encourages parents to engage in compassionate dialogues and seek professional support when necessary. We also touch on the vital role of a nurturing community and the impact of recovery-focused environments for teenagers.
The raw emotion of grief echoes throughout this episode as we reflect on Chase's tragic passing and the far-reaching repercussions for those left behind. Darryl's narrative is a testament to the transformative power of turning pain into purpose, advocating for open communication and supportive networks. We discuss the church's potential as a sanctuary for healing and the importance of overcoming judgment to embrace those in need. By sharing these stories, we hope to foster a community grounded in empathy, where no one feels the need to hide their struggles.
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Midwest Parent Educators: https://bit.ly/mpeuh25 If you are a first-time conference attendee, you qualify for their First-Time Family discount code. Even better - if you’re parents of preschoolers, you can get FREE conference admission by applying for the Parents of Preschoolers discount code. More details are on the webpage link.
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